Sex and the singlemom

 

By Maureen Mennor Nwaezeigwe

Why is this even an issue? and probably should not be...except of course you are on a spiritual adventure. When you are on a spiritual adventure, you do not take things on face value, you see things, hear things and aspire for a dimension of conquest in the realm that is totally different from the physical. 

Getting laid is on a whole new level of selection and you know that not just any penis would do. And even though you are old enough to 'shag' whoever you want to, without giving any explanations to anyone, ( especially those annoying gossips that think they got the right to your privacy) being single and all; you do not abuse the freedom! 

Choosing the Penis is a very vital decision that should be made with care. It may take a while before the one that ticks the boxes most perfectly would arrive. I am sure you are wondering where am going with this, but hang on. It really should not not be hard at all to go into a relationship with a man, and do what many grown-ups do behind closed doors. In fact, a relationship may not even be necessary. A friend recently told me that she is not ready for the stress of a relationship yet and what she does when the heat is on, is to satisfy herself with someone she shares mutual respect with and that's it. Period. Oh yea baby, ladies can use and dump a man's ass too! But when you are answerable to a spiritual Master that has commanded you not to have sex until certain conditions are met, which includes getting the acceptable penis, as a loyal subject, you fall in line. You shape in or shape out..at least for as long as you wish to remain a servant to the Master. You see my own Master vomits followers who are neither cold or hot, sadly, some of my fellow servants think that its ok to perpetually have the wrong sex, say they are sorry and do it all over again and again and again. Even though it is a work in progress, we are advised and expected to be seen to be growing and not stagnant. This may be the major reason many services are without the the kind of fire the Bible tells us we are to experience. The gathering of violators of the code who dishonour the Master and then come together under the guise that they have come to 'worship Him'. Motivational speeches without the demonstration of power!!!  

The waiting process can be a bouquet of many things really, depending on your sex drive and life style. If you have what is described as a healthy sexual appetite, meaning you like and enjoy sex and desire  to have sex frequently, you would be having serious challenges in this area if you do not master the secrets to controlling and keeping the drive suspended until the right time the perfect penis finds its way to you. Why am I using penis instead of 'man'? because we are talking sex here and we should be practical. Sex involves the penis and the vagina simple. When talking about eating noodles, better to straight away use the 'fork' instead of 'cutleries' right...its more direct in describing the process. Also, I think I like the sense of freedom am feeling right now using the word without being scared that someone may think am spoilt...who cares!!!!!! I like sex. I think God knew what He was doing when he created the sexual organs in the way He did for pleasure. Some women do not like nor enjoy sex and it has nothing to do with being circumcised or not ( the horrible cutting off of parts of a woman's clit...simply put; female gentile mutilation), which has badly affected some women. But when you are with a man that knows the 'principles of pleasure' according to Janet Jackson, circumcision  does not get in the way of fulfilment. I was watchin a Queen Esther movie sometime ago, and in that movie, Esther asked the maid that attended to her how it felt to have sex with a man because she is a virgin and does not know. Guess what she told Esther? she said: " It depends on the man"

 

A single mom who is on a spiritual adventure to attain certain degrees of spiritual dimensions akin to those described in the Holy Bible, must of a necessity learn to shift focus from the flesh. So much sacrifice is required. I had to give up beer( didn't drink much, but once in a while I liked mixing the contents of the green bottle with soft drinks to create a whole new flavour. But it made me carnal afterwards, so I had to give it up). you must give up anything that feeds the flesh or that reminds you of sex. Invest more time in materials and exercises  that encourage spiritual growth, before you realize it, three years would pass and you have not had sex and you really did not miss it that much. Oh but you will certainly miss it a bit, because the sex hormones in your body...especially at certain seasons of your circle would be placing demands on you, but when you remember your incredible Master, His commands and your spiritual quest; you tell your vagina to hold her peace while you await the arrival of the acceptable and perfect penis.

Maureen Mennor Nwaezeigwe

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